I don’t think most people out there on the pro-choice side want to have an abortion or thinks abortions are especially great. No one revels in having to get an abortion. All that’s being argued is the right to have one and the right to make ones own medical decisions.
No one else involved. And I’d suspect that if you asked most of those Democrats or pro-choice people if they support birth control, sex education, etc., they’d say yes. Because they and I believe that the choice should never have to come up but when it does, people shouldn’t be shamed for even considering it.